I signed up for a trip that included glamping the Sahara Desert even though I thought I hated camping.
Jamie Davis Smith
I went glamping for the first time in the Sahara Desert with two kids and had an amazing time.
Not even the sub-zero temperatures and minimal amenities ruined the beautiful views.
After this experience, I'd go glamping again and I might even try camping.
I don't require five-star accommodations to be comfortable, but I have spent most of my adult life avoiding camping, convinced I would hate it.
When I travel, I like having hot showers, reliable electricity, and a warm place to sleep at night. Those basics aren't a guarantee with camping, but they do often come with glamping.
Glamping varies widely but generally consists of accommodations and facilities more luxurious than a basic tent. Sometimes, it also involves sleeping in a yurt, cabin, or unique structure — after all, the glamping industry is booming in the US amid the rising demand for unique travel experiences.
So when I booked a group tour to Morocco with my two kids that included overnight camping in the Sahara Desert, I was down to give it a try.
I paid $4,256 for the three of us for the entire group tour, which included accommodations, a sunset camel ride into the dunes, dinner, and breakfast during the two days in the Sahara Desert.
At first, I didn't realize what I was in for
The Sahara Desert can get cold at night.
Jamie Davis Smith
When I signed up for the trip, I naively assumed a desert in North Africa would be comfortable in December.
Only later while frantically searching what I would need to camp in the Sahara did I learn its temperatures in the winter could fall to 25 degrees Fahrenheit or lower.
I started to panic. The tent I was staying in did not have heat. I rush-ordered a merino wool base layer and hoped for the best.
I read reviews past travelers left saying that even though the camp I was staying in had showers, I could forget about using them because it would be far too cold.
At the last minute, I packed a few baby wipes so I could give myself a sponge bath in the desert if needed. I was no longer convinced this would be a very glam experience, but it was too late to change my plans.
Fortunately, the desert camp was much nicer than I expected
The Sahara Desert camp felt surprisingly cozy.
Jamie Davis Smith
My camp in the Sahara — El Borj, located in Erg Chebbi — was anything but basic. Improbably, it had a cozy, home-like feel.
Throughout the campsite, beautiful Moroccan rugs were carefully arranged over the sand. Each structure had pops of color on its exterior, too.
I can live without WiFi, but I like having reliable electricity.
Jamie Davis Smith
The camp had a welcoming walkway lined with solar-powered lights, which was great at night.
My tent was huge. Much to my relief, it was also insulated.
The tent had electricity, but I wasn't sure if I could rely on it.
Jamie Davis Smith
The camp had electricity, although I had been warned that the power source was unreliable and could fail at any moment.
Daytime in the desert was magical, and nighttime was cold but lovely
I vowed that riding a camel into the sunset, watching the sun disappear over the vast desert, and sliding down enormous sand dunes would not be a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
At night, I bundled up and enjoyed a feast with roasted olives, traditional Moroccan tagine, couscous, and fresh fruit sprinkled with cinnamon.
As the temperature dropped, I huddled by the fire and stared in awe at the desert sky, which was filled with more stars than I'd ever seen at one time. The moon was so full and bright it didn't look real.
Plenty of food was available at the glamping site.
Jamie Davis Smith
I thought about how I would have missed all of this if I had let my fear of camping — and even glamping — stand in my way.
If being cold and going without a hot shower for a day was the trade-off for such an amazing experience, it was well worth the inconvenience.
The campsite looked cool at night, too.
Jamie Davis Smith
When it was time to go to bed, the blankets were heavy, but I was so tired I barely noticed their weight as I drifted off to sleep.
I woke once, briefly, and considered getting up to use the bathroom in our tent. I felt the bitter cold nipping my face and decided I could wait until the morning.
I would gladly go glamping again — and I might even try camping
Our trip in the desert changed my mind about glamping.
Jamie Davis Smith
I woke up early, in time to catch the golden sunrise over the dunes. I sat by the fire with a hot cup of coffee mixed with warm milk and sugar.
As I watched the sunrise, I decided that I was a glamping person after all. Later that afternoon, driving away from the desert, I wondered if I should give old-fashioned camping a try, too.
Starlink, the satellite internet division of SpaceX, is now offering a new smaller, more portable dish it calls the Mini.
At 11.75 inches by 10.2 inches and weighing less than 2.5 pounds, the laptop-sized device fits easily into a backpack and can reach 100Mbps.
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It also draws less power than the full-sized Standard, which means the Mini is capable of running on a 100W USB-C PD battery pack, which The Verge estimates estimates could give you about an hour of run-time on a 10,000mAh pack.
"I just set it up right now and am writing this post through space. Took less than 5 mins," SpaceX CEO Elon Musk wrote on X. "This product will change the world."
Musk also claimed his connection achieved a remarkably low 23ms latency — fast enough for online gaming.
About half the price of the standard dish to buy and monthly subscription, but you can still watch multiple 4k video streams simultaneously!
The unit costs $599 in the US, but sales here are currently by invitation only as an add-on service to residential service plans.
Additional regions will be available in the future, but for now only customers in Colombia, El Salvador, Guatemala, and Panama can purchase a Mini, where it is available at a lower price with a special standalone service option.
"Our goal is to reduce the price of Starlink, especially for those around the world where connectivity has been unaffordable or completely unavailable," Starlink said.
Outdoor enthusiasts and digital nomads alike welcomed the concept on X.
"This would be a game-changer for me," Ron Stauffer posted. "I've spent the past decade awkwardly Wi-Fi-hopping from coffee shops to restaurants to coworking spaces and tethering from my iPhone. I always have my backpack with me, so this sounds like the perfect solution."
My rail journeys in these seven countries have varied greatly. I've booked a range of classes on day trips and overnight rides. I've even been on the 21st-century version of a legendary luxury train— the Venice Simplon-Orient-Express.
But none of those experiences were as unique as my ride on the Polybahn in Zurich in 2022.
The Polybahn is a funicular, like a train on a steep incline (sometimes called a hillavator). The rails go up and down, making it feel like a slow roller coaster.
I thought the Swiss funicular was a great tourist attraction similar to an aerial tram because you can see a range of views of the surrounding areas. It's also a cool experience for history buffs, as the transportation mode has served Zurich since 1886, according to the company's website.
And for just over $1, it's the cheapest travel activity I've ever paid for — and one of the best.
My journey started at Central Polybahn station in Zurich's Altstadt neighborhood.
Zurich's Central Polybahn station.
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At the station, I used an automated machine to purchase a ticket. One ride cost me $1.30.
Inside, I walked up a set of stairs to the only platform and immediately noticed the tracks were on an incline.
The Polybahn pulled up within minutes.
A Polybahn arrives at a station in Zurich.
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According to the Polybahn website, the train arrives every five minutes. It has two cars that each carry 50 people at a time.
As I stepped on board, I was excited by the car's bold red exterior, wide windows, and unique shape.
I noticed that there were no staff members on board. Since 1996, the train runs automatically.
Inside a Polybahn car in Zurich.
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There were less than a dozen people on board. Some looked like fellow tourists with phones and cameras out; others seemed like locals.
But none were employees. According to the company's website, the Polybahn was upgraded in 1996 and has since operated completely automatically.
From the elevated train, I had wide views of Zurich from start to finish.
Views of Zurich from the Polybahn.
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I saw a range of architectural styles, an abundance of greenery, and the hilly streets of the Swiss city from a window seat. A wide window at the back of the train reminded me we were moving up as the tracks sloped downward behind us.
Just two minutes later, my journey was over far too soon.
Views of Zurich from Polyterrasse.
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I could have spent at least an hour gazing at the city from the Polybahn, but just two minutes after departure, I arrived at Polyterrasse — a viewing deck at the University of Zurich.
With a panoramic scene of Zurich in front of a mountain range, I had an optimal view of the city I'll never forget.
A B-52 Stratofortress assigned to the 340th Weapons Squadron at Barksdale Air Force Base, La., takes off during a U.S. Air Force Weapons School Integration exercise at Nellis AFB, Nev., Nov. 18, 2021.
U.S. Air Force photo by William R. Lewis
Two significant upgrades to the B-52 bombers are facing issues and delays, per a new watchdog report.
The re-engined bombers, for instance, won't be operational until 2033, three years later than expected.
The upgrades are part of a plan to keep the B-52s in service until at least 2050.
Some significant upgrades to the US Air Force's 70-year-old strategic bombers are facing notable issues.
Plans to replace the engines and upgrade the radars of the B-52s now come with a higher price tag, delivery delays, and technology issues, according to a new government watchdog report.
The B-52 Commercial Engine Replacement Program, which seeks to substitute the bombers' older engines with military-configured commercial engines, is now delayed "in part due to funding shortfalls to complete the detailed design," the annual Government Accountability Office report on major US military programs said earlier this week.
Per the report, the B-52 CERP program "has worked with the contractors and submitted budget requests to support critical design review in August 2025 and initial operational capability in mid-fiscal year 2033." Delays are notably "a result of underestimating the level of funding needed to complete the detailed design activities."
That's three years later than the Air Force planned to have the re-engined planes operating. The service first announced plans in 2021to replace the engines on its B-52s — which are out-of-production — with new Rolls-Royce-designed ones. The new engines boast improved fuel usage and easier maintenance.
Pilots from the 2nd Bomb Wing land a B-52 Stratofortress at RAF Fairford, United Kingdom, Sept. 25, 2017 after a mission in support of bomber assurance and deterrence operations.
U.S. Air Force photo by Tech. Sgt. Joshua J. Garcia
Along with the delays, the cost of CERP saw a jump. The program's procurement cost, an initial $8 billion, is now up to around $9 billion, according to the Pentagon's fiscal year 2025 budget, as Inside Defense first reported. Its projected total cost is unclear.
The B-52 Radar Modernization Program also saw a bump in cost due to issues with lab testing, the GAO report said. "Costs grew by 12.6 percent since the program's initial estimate in 2021 due to additional hardware and labor for three integration labs, installation of test equipment, and an additional year of contractor support."
That upgrade involves switching the B-52s over to a new radar that provides greater range and resistance to electronic warfare countermeasures.
Along with the issues with these B-52 programs, GAO's report found that the Department of Defense was, across the board, "still struggling to deliver new technologies quickly, even while faced with constantly evolving threats."
A U.S. Air Force B-52H Stratofortress assigned to the 20th Expeditionary Bomb Squadron at Barksdale Air Force Base, Louisiana, arrives on the flightline August 4, 2023, as part of a Bomber Task Force mission at Andersen Air Force Base, Guam.
U.S. Air Force photo by Airman 1st Class Nia Jacobs
For the B-52, the integration of new systems is critical to keeping its B-52s operational for the next few decades. The Air Force plans to keep the planes in service until 2050, almost 100 years after the first B-52 entered service. There are currently 72 active, with some in conventional roles and others still able to serve in a nuclear capacity. Those that are no longer active are in long-term storage at the Air Force's "boneyard" in Arizona.
The Air Force continues to rely on the B-52s for long-range strategic bomber missions, even though they lack the speed of the B-1 Lancers and the stealth of the B-2 Spirits.
Their formidable airframe and durable design keep them in good shape despite continued flights and operations. And updated weapons, communications, and other hardware and software keep the planes modern and capable, as well as make it easier to conduct future upgrades.
Trump has wiped out Biden's cash lead in the race to November.
Donations to the Trump campaign surged in the final two days of may after his felony conviction.
Trump now has a cash advantage over Biden, with $116.6 million on hand versus Biden's $91.6 million.
Donations to the Trump campaign poured in after the former president's felony conviction last month. And now, he has a huge cash advantage over Joe Biden.
For the month of May alone, the Trump campaign and the Republican National Committee raised a combined $141 million, The New York Times reported. Meanwhile, the Biden campaign and the Democratic National Committee brought in $85 million for the month, the campaign said.
To Trump's apparent advantage, he spent much of May in Manhattan federal court fighting 34 felony charges for falsifying business records related to his attempt to cover up an alleged affair with porn actress Stormy Daniels. And in the final two days of May — the day he was convicted on all counts and the day after — donations to his campaign surged dramatically.
On those two days, the Trump campaign raked in six times as many large donations as on an average day, Politico reported. And that surge is probably even higher because unitemized contributions under $200 aren't included, nor are ones that hadn't yet been transferred, according to Politico.
April was also a blockbuster month for Trump's fundraising efforts. He started out the month $100 million behind Biden, but by the end, his team had raised $25 million more than Biden's had for the month, according to the Times.
And now, Biden's longstanding cash advantage over Trump has been knocked out. At the end of May, Trump's campaign had $116.6 million on hand, while Biden's had $91.6 million, FEC filings show.
"President Trump's record-breaking fundraising numbers prove Crooked Joe Biden's witch hunts against President Trump, skyrocketing inflation, and the illegal border invasion have united the American people around the fact that another four years of Biden will mean the end of our country," the Trump campaign's communications director, Steven Cheung, said in a statement to Business Insider.
Still, the Biden campaign isn't doing too shabby.
The president's campaign said that May was its second-strongest grassroots month yet, with more than three million donors joining the effort. The Biden team said that combined with the DNC's funds, it had a war chest of $212 million at the start of June. The Trump campaign and the RNC have not tallied their total cash on hand for the same period, but a partial count shows they have a combined $170 million, the Times reported.
Biden has also been spending far more than Trump. In May, Biden's campaign spent $30 million, more than four times as much as Trump's, FEC filings show. Earlier this week, Biden announced a $50 million media blitz that includes a searing attack ad highlighting Trump's conviction.
"The money we continue to raise matters, and it's helping the campaign build out an operation that invests in reaching and winning the voters who will decide this election – a stark contrast to Trump's PR stunts and photo-ops that he's pretending is a campaign," Julie Chavez Rodriguez, the campaign manager for Biden-Harris 2024, said in a press release. "From person-to-person organizing to a historic paid media campaign, we're doing the work to reach and earn the votes needed to win in November."
Harry Jowsey and Jessica Vestal star in "Perfect Match" season two.
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Harry Jowsey and Jessica Vestal are one of the most popular couples in "Perfect Match" season two.
Fans previously speculated that the pair dated in 2023.
Here's what we know about their relationship on the show and whether they are still together.
Warning: Spoilers ahead for "Perfect Match" season two.
Netflix reality star Harry Jowsey and "Love Is Blind" fan-favorite cast member Jessica Vestal broke up in the "Perfect Match" season two finale.
In season two, stars from "Squid Game: The Challenge," "Love Is Blind" and other shows date each other to find their perfect match.
The series gives Netflix the opportunity to give fan-favorite reality contestants more screen time while promoting their lesser-known shows like as "The Trust: A Game of Greed" and "Dated & Related."
In season two, Harry, who has a reputation for being a player, arrives in the house and says he is ready to settle down in a serious relationship.
Harry Jowsey and Jessica Vestal were matched together for a date by Kaz Bishop and Micah Lussier in "Perfect Match" season 2.
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His costars are doubtful, but he perseveres, and in episode three, he couples up with Jessica, who starred in the latest season of "Love Is Blind."
The pair fight in episodes three and five when Jessica questions Harry's honesty after she hears negative comments from other contestants. But Jessica sticks by Harry.
Their relationship gets messy in episode eight, when the male contestants go on a trip away from their partners and meet a group of female contestants.
Harry is caught in a cheating scandal after Melinda Berry accuses him of kissing her off-camera. Harry denies the kisses, but Holly Scarfone says she saw it.
When all the contestants get back to the house, Melinda tells Jessica, and Jessica is unsure who to believe. In the season finale, Jessica decides not to rematch that night, meaning both contestants have to leave the competition.
Even before the season finale, there were clues they were no longer dating. Here's why.
Jessica and Harry were photographed together in Mexico last year
Jessica Vestal and Harry Jowsey competing in a "Perfect Match" couples challenge.
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Before "Perfect Match" aired fans were already speculating whether Harry and Jessica were dating.
In March, TMZ and PageSix published pictures of Harry and Jessica kissing that they claim were taken in June 2023 in Tulum, Mexico.
However, these photographs may have been taken while the cast was filming "Perfect Match" season two since the series was filmed in Tulum.
Harry confirmed on the latest episode of his podcast, "Boyfriend Material with Harry Jowsey," that the series was filmed in the summer of 2023.
Jessica implied she was single in March.
In March of this year, Jessica seemed to push back on the idea that she was dating someone.
She posted a TikTok, captioning it: "Trust, y'all will know when someone has wifed me up. Let's focus on the ones who actually might be."
It isn't as definitive as "I'm not in a relationship," but certainly points to an ongoing relationship with Harry being unlikely.
In February, Jessica also spoke about another possible non-Harry romance.
She said on the "Viall Files" podcast that she was attracted to a costar from "Love Is Blind" season six.
"I had another strong connection there," Jessica said. "I can't say any names because I'm still trying to sort some things out."
Harry said he broke up with a secret girlfriend last year.
Rylee Arnold and Harry Jowsey dancing salsa in "Dancing With The Stars" season 32.
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In the fall of 2023, Harry partnered up with professional dancer Rylee Arnold to compete in "Dancing With The Stars" season 32.
However, fans began speculating that the dancing partners were dating after seeing their chemistry and reading reports that they spent Thanksgiving together.
Harry shut down the rumors at the time, telling Business Insider in November: "I try and ignore it all because I just want to focus on the dancing. If I get distracted with dating stuff and all that stuff, then I'm probably not going to be a good dancer."
In April, Harry said on his podcast, "Boyfriend Material with Harry Jowsey," that he was actually in a secret relationship during the filming of "Dancing With the Stars."
"All those edits kind of brought me and my girlfriend at the time apart," Harry said, referring to TikTok videos that elevated the dating rumors about him and Rylee.
This secret girlfriend could have been Jessica since Harry never reveals the woman's name in the video. But we don't know — and in any case it was over by the time he mentioned it.
"I was madly in love with this girl," Harry said. "It was probably just infatuation, but I thought it was love. Obviously, it ended up ending, and it fizzled out because it's so difficult to see your boyfriend or girlfriend on 'Dancing with the Stars' being that close with someone else."
Harry credited the secret girlfriend for keeping him steady during his sudden rise in fame until they eventually broke up.
Jessica calls Harry a red flag in TikTok videos
Dom Gabriel, Stevan Ditter, Jessica Vestal, Harry Jowsey in "Perfect Match" season two.
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Throughout "Perfect Match," Jessica's costars warned her of Harry's poor dating history. However, Jessica ignores them and continues to date him.
After the first episodes of "Perfect Match" aired on June 7, Jessica also began calling Harry a "red flag" on TikTok which seems to imply that they are no longer dating.
On Monday, she posted a video with the caption: "When the entire house is telling you that your match is the world's largest red flag but you gotta see it through."
On Sunday, she appeared in another video shared by her "Perfect Match" costar, Micah Lussier, about their partners on the show.
"When everyone warned you about your man, but you're a lover girl at heart, so you're gonna stick beside him against your better judgment," Micah captioned the post.
Harry meanwhile commented on his relationship with Jessica after the show aired on the latest episode of his podcast.
However, he had nothing but good things to say about her and even said she was "the love of my life."
"I thought that Jess was the most incredible most beautiful woman that I've ever seen in my life," he said.
Harry and Jessica are not following each other on Instagram
The biggest clue that they're not together is that Harry and Jessica don't follow each other on Instagram.
Harry has shared videos and pictures of their time together on the show, but Business Insider has checked and he doesn't follow Jessica. In fact, Harry only follows some of his male costars from the show.
Jessica follows most of her male and female costars but not Harry.
This likely means they're no longer on good terms.
Correction: June 17, 2024 — An earlier version of this story misstated the number of episodes in the spoiler warning. There were nine episodes, not six.
It's his third child with Zilis. The billionaire quietly had twins with the Neuralink executive in 2021, according to court documents that showed Musk filed a petition to change the twins' names to "have their father's last name and contain their mother's last name as part of their middle name."
It's not clear how many children Musk has in total, but he has 11 living who are publicly known: five with his first wife, the author Justine Wilson, three with the musician Grimes, and three with Zilis.
Musk cofounded Neuralink and serves as the co-CEO of the company, which develops brain-computer technology. The news about another child with Zilis comes a couple weeks after a Wall Street Journal report detailed Musk's "boundary-blurring relationships" with female employees at SpaceX.
One former SpaceX employee accused Musk of asking her to have his babies on more than one occasion, according to the report. She declined the offer and later said she was denied a raise, according to the report. She eventually left the company and received an exit package valued above $1 million, the Journal reported.
Musk has talked publicly about his views on the risks of declining birth rates since 2017, and has said he considers the issue to be the biggest threat to civilization. He has also said he's encouraged his friends to have more children. A day after Business Insider reported he had fathered twins with Zilis, he posted on X that he's doing his best "to help the underpopulation crisis."
Musk isn't the only tech mogul to want to reproduce as a way to save humanity. The ideology is reportedly gaining traction among some powerful figures who believe they can counteract the risks of falling birth rates by producing genetically superior offspring.
Zilis and Musk did not immediately respond to requests for comment.
Micah Lussier and Kaz Bishop star in this season of "Perfect Match."
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Warning: Spoilers ahead for "Perfect Match" season two.
In the new season, "Love Is Blind" alum Micah Lussier couples up with "Dated & Related" star Kaz Bishop.
Here's an update on their on their relationship.
Micah Lussier and Kaz Bishop may have rekindled their relationship in the "Perfect Match" season two finale, but it seems they are no longer dating.
Micah is on her second attempt at a reality TV romance after trying and failing to find a husband on Netflix's most popular reality show, "Love Is Blind."
She appears in the latest season of "Perfect Match," a Netflix crossover series in which fan favorites from other shows compete and date to find their partner.
In episode two, Micah pairs up with "Dated & Related" alum Kaz Bishop, and the pair wins two couples' challenges in the season.
But their relationship is constantly tested in the second half of the series. First, Kaz is sent on a date with Holly Scarfone, who previously starred in "Too Hot To Handle" season three.
Kaz Bishop on his date with Holly Scarfone in "Perfect Match" season two.
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When Kaz returns, he struggles to decide who to pick between Holly and Micah. Micah gets angry about this situation and calls Kaz a liar. They make up in episode seven and match together again.
However, in the following episodes, Micah and Kaz are caught in more fights when he chats with other women.
In episode nine, the pair have a screaming match. Micah is angry with Kaz this time for talking to a third new contestant, Christine Obanor, and kissing Holly in a game. Kaz is annoyed that Micah told other contestants that they are the weakest couple.
They finally break up and Kaz matches up with Christine, and Micah pairs up with Izzy Zapata.
In the following episode, Kaz has second thoughts and speaks to Micah about rebuilding their relationship. Micah doesn't immediately give in but eventually decides to match with Kaz.
At the end of the season, they are still coupled up.
Here are the clues that the couple probably isn't together anymore.
Micah has posted on social media about other dates
"Perfect Match" stars Micah Lussier and Izzy Zapata in the season 6 reunion of "Love is Blind."
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Netflix reality series are often filmed months or even years before they premiere. This means that contestants often do not post anything about their relationships from the reality show or new relationships until after the series has aired.
While we do not know exactly when "Perfect Match" season two was filmed, it was likely before the fall of 2023, when some contestants had other TV commitments.
Since September 2023, Micah has shared three TikTok posts about going on new dates. In the first post shared on September 16, 2023, Micah shows the man she is dating, and he doesn't look anything like Kaz.
Micah has not confirmed that she has a new partner, but the fact that she is dating other people means her romance with Kaz probably didn't work out.
Correction: June 17, 2024 — An earlier version of this story misstated the number of episodes in the spoiler warning. There were nine episodes, not six.
Harry Jowsey, Jessica Vestal, and Melinda Berry in "Perfect Match" season two.
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Warning: Major spoilers for "Perfect Match" season two.
Harry Jowsey is in hot water with Jessica Vestal after being accused of kissing another contestant.
Here's what we know about the kissing scandal involving Melinda Berry.
Harry Jowsey and Jessica Vestal broke up in the "Perfect Match" season two finale after he was accused of kissing another contestant.
Harry was obsessed with Jessica from episode three, and the pair became one of the more consistent couples of the season.
But in episode eight, Harry begins flirting with Melinda while at a party without Jessica. Harry offers to carry Melinda twice in the episode, and the second time, Harry allegedly kisses Melinda.
The "kiss" apparently happens off-camera, turning the incident into an argument between Melinda, who is adamant that the kiss happened, and Harry, who says it didn't.
The next day, Melinda tells Jessica that she and Harry kissed, causing a big fight between the three contestants.
Fans were hoping to find out the truth during the cast reunion in the season two finale, but Harry never confirms what happened.
Harry does apologize to Jess for his behavior, at which point the show cuts to a series of clips from the party that seem to indicate he and Melinda deliberately attempted to kiss out of view of the camera.
In one of the clips, Harry asks the production crew if they caught the kiss on camera.
The scandal became one of the biggest controversies of "Perfect Match" season two, especially since the audience never sees the alleged kiss.
Here's what we know so far about the kissing scandal between Melinda and Harry.
'Perfect Match' season two, episode eight: Melinda and Holly say the kiss happened off-screen
In "Perfect Match" season two, episode eight, Stevan Ditter, Harry Jowsey, Chris Hahn, Kaz Bishop, Justin Assada are separated from their female partners.
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The kissing scandal begins in episode eight after all the couples are split up and sent to separate parties. The boys' party is ambushed by a group of female contestants who are trying to tempt the men away from their original partners.
Frustratingly, "Perfect Match" never reveals if the kiss happens in the episodes released on June 14. Either it occurred off-camera or the producers have decided to withhold the footage.
But we do have some potential witnesses. In episode eight, Holly Scarfone and Justin Assada were talking to each other right next to where the kiss is thought to have happened.
Holly is actually the first person to claim they kissed.
Justin says: "Woah, what's going on there? huh"
Holly replies: "Boys' day. They kissed."
The camera also pivots to Stevan Ditter, who seems to be looking in the direction of Harry and Melinda.
Stevan and Justin both say they didn't see anything, though they could be trying to defend their friend.
Justin Assada says he didn't see anything but Holly Scarfone says she saw the kiss.
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The camera then goes back to Melinda and Harry, and Harry begins to talk about his great relationship with Jessica.
When Melinda mentions the kiss, Harry denies it, laughs without looking directly at her, and walks away.
Harry doubles down when they get to the rest of the group, saying that Melinda is making up the kiss to boost her fame.
"No one saw it," he tells the rest of the group. "That was fake news. I did not kiss her. Where's the video evidence?"
'Perfect Match' season two, episode eight: Harry doesn't mention the kiss when he first sees Jessica
Later in the episode, the original couples return to the house, and Jessica finds Harry crying in his bed.
Harry tells Jessica he hasn't been the best example for her or her daughter Autumn.
Harry says he was too playful during the boys' party and carried Melinda to the toilet at one point in the day. Harry never mentions a kiss and instead accuses Melinda of trying to lie about what happened earlier in the day.
Jessica and Harry have a brief argument, as she doesn't initially believe him but Jessica eventually forgives him.
'Perfect Match' season two, episode eight-nine: Jessica tells Melinda off for telling everyone about the alleged kiss
Harry Jowsey accidentally walks into the girls' chat about his kissing scandal.
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At the end of episode eight, the female contestants from the "boys' party" arrive in the house to give them an opportunity to steal any of the men.
All the women decide to congregate around a table to reveal if any of the men cheated during the boys' day out. Melinda immediately tells Jessica that she and Harry kissed three times the day before.
"He just kissed me," Melinda says. "And then does it again, so I kissed him back."
Harry and Dom Gabriel walk past, so Jessica asks Harry to comment on Melinda's story. Harry again denies kissing Melinda, saying that no one saw anything.
Melinda then turns to Brittan Byrd, who was nearby during the incident, to support her claim. Brittan says Melinda's makeup was on his nose.
Jessica begins questioning Melinda's motives for kissing Harry and not telling her this information privately.
The pair argue over this for a minute before Jessica says she will ask for both sides of the story before deciding whether to stay with Harry.
Meanwhile, Harry walks away and complains about the situation to Dom. Harry tells Dom that Melinda set up the conversation about the kiss and says Melinda was the one who tried to initiate a kiss, but he turned away.
'Perfect Match' season two, episode nine: Melinda says Harry also said he wanted to have sex with her
Melinda Berry in "The Perfect Match" season two.
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Jessica spends most of episode nine asking multiple contestants about what she should do about the Harry situation.
It is not the first time Harry's loyalty has been questioned. Harry has a poor dating track record, and multiple contestants have brought this up to Jessica.
Jessica speaks to Alara Taneri, Stevan, Dom, and Bryton Constantin, who all defend Harry. Jessica also speaks to Harry for his side of the story.
Harry denies the kiss but adds another element to the story.
"I did look at her stomach, and I said, 'It'd look good if you were pregnant.' But it was not in that sense," Harry says.
When Melinda speaks to Jessica privately later in the episode, Melinda says Harry wanted to have sex with her.
"He was like, 'I'm 30 years old. I'm ready for some babies.' He goes, 'You ready for some babies? I'll put a baby in you,'" Melinda says. "He goes, 'They'll come out handsome and tall and athletic.'"
'Perfect Match' season two, episode nine: Jessica confronts Harry
Jessica Vestal and Harry Jowsey competing in a "Perfect Match" couples challenge.
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Harry and Jessica sit down again at the end of the episode to discuss the kissing incident.
Harry says he has been vomiting all evening because of the stress of the situation and apologizes again for the incident. However, Jessica is still not convinced Harry is telling the whole truth.
The episode ends with Harry making another plea for Jessica to match with him.
June 14-17, 2024: Harry and Melinda joke about the kissing drama on social media
Ahead of the season two finale, Harry and Melinda appeared to joke about the kissing scandal on social media.
In one of Melinda's two TikTok posts about the kiss, she captioned the video: "All I know is the truth #theperfectmatch #perfectmatch #Netflix all will be revealed."
Meanwhile, Harry shared an Instagram reel of him wearing a T-shirt that said "I ❤️ gaslighting" while reading a book titled "gaslighting."
June 18, 2024: Harry says he was told to create drama during the boys' day.
Harry Jowsey, Stevan Ditter, Justin Assada and Brittan Byrd in "Perfect Match" season two.
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Harry seemed to suggest that he lied about the "kiss" in the latest episode of his podcast, "Boyfriend Material with Harry Jowsey," which aired on Tuesday.
Harry said he was a "gaslighting king" during episodes seven to nine of "Perfect Match." Harry never addresses the kiss directly but said he would talk more about the situation next week.
"I just want to let you guys know it's a lot worse than you think, so buckle up," he said.
Later in the episode, Dom appeared as a guest on the podcast and said he didn't agree with Harry's "gaslighting" and "lying" during the kissing drama. But Dom said Harry's actions wouldn't have been as serious in the real world.
These comments seem to indicate that Harry kissed Melinda and lied about it.
Harry also said there were "no hard feelings" between him and Melinda, implying they've made up.
Harry added there was no excuse for his behavior, and listed multiple reasons for his actions.
Harry said he wasn't in the right headspace when filming "Perfect Match," and he was drinking a lot before and during the boys' day outing.
"There was no limit on that alcohol," Harry said. "I was so fucking drunk that I don't remember leaving that place. I don't remember the second half of that night. All I remember is like the shit that went down and then being back at the house with food poisoning."
In last week's episode of "Boyfriend Material," Harry said he didn't remember much of the show because he was always drunk.
Later in this week's episode, Harry said that someone in the "Perfect Match" production team told the contestants to create drama to make the series more interesting.
"There was someone on the team that came up to both the girls and the guys and said, 'Hey, if you guys don't do anything or create any drama, we don't have a fucking show,'" Harry said.
Representatives for "Perfect Match" did not immediately respond to a comment request from Business Insider outside business hours.
In "Perfect Match" season two, episodes eight and nine, Harry looks very sick and tells Jessica he vomited because he was worried about their relationship.
On his podcast, Harry said he just had food poisoning from undercooked salmon that he made.
"It looked like I was vomiting, crying, and freaking the fuck out from Jess," Harry said. "But, in that moment, I was just violently ill."
Harry said he should have spoken to Jess after the boys' party and taken accountability, but at the time, he was blackout drunk, sick from food poisoning, and had a victim mentality.
"I was only thinking about myself," Harry said. "Looking back at that, there's a lot of shit I would have done different."
Perfect Match season two finale: The show suggests Harry deliberately kissed Melinda off-camera.
Harry Jowsey in the "Perfect Match" season two finale cast reunion.
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The beginning of the season two finale returns to the conversation between Jessica and Harry, in which she tells him she doesn't know whether to trust him.
Though she believes Harry wants to change, Jessica says she doesn't want to settle for a man who makes her question the truth, so she doesn't match him. Both Harry and Jess then leave.
At the end of the finale, the cast, excluding Justin, reunites to discuss their relationships and vote for a winner.
Before the vote, host Nick Lachey gives the cast a chance to speak about their journey. Harry takes the opportunity to say he is disappointed with his behavior on the show but grateful for the experience and for his relationship with Jess.
"Obviously, I'm disappointed in the whole situation, and I made some silly decisions, and I embarrassed myself and wasn't honest with someone that I really cared about," Harry says.
The show then cuts to numerous clips from the party in episode eight. There is a clip of Harry telling Melinda he wants to get her pregnant, followed by clips of Melinda and Harry whispering about doing something off-camera.
Melinda says, "No Cameras. Go ahead, no one's looking," while a camera is pointed at a tree.
In the next clip, Melinda and Harry can be seen on-screen again, and Melinda says, "Treacherous kiss. I wanted to just dog your face out."
Harry replies, "Oh yeah, I wanna fuck you."
Jessica Vestal said on Instagram that she still doesn't know whether the kiss really happened.
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Later, Harry tells Chris Hahn that he's done "something really bad" but refuses to say what he did on camera.
In the final clip, Harry asks the production crew, "Did you guys get footage of me and Melinda kissing or not? I didn't mean to do it."
These clips suggest that the kiss happened, but Harry and Melinda tried to do it off camera.
The show then cuts back to Harry's speech, where he says it is important for men to own up to their "fuck-up," but he still doesn't admit to the kiss.
When it's Jessica's turn to speak, it seems she believes in Harry but is not ready to date him again.
"I think Harry is a good man. I think he wants to do better," Jessica says. "But is he the kind of man that I want to lead my life right now? No, but I don't regret it."